~11~ Book Review By Danic Pheh

Hi Prisca, you are welcome to share it on your blog with others. I am glad to have other people benefit from it. Thank you for using yor blog as a platform to share it. Let me know on how others feedback on it so I can improve myself the next time I write another review. Cheers from Danic Pheh ~ Globe Success Learning Sdn. Bhd.

Hi friends! This is a review on one my the greatest book I have laid my eyes on getting out of the box by Arbinger Institute. This book is recomended by Dom during my Business School in Sep 07.

Imagine you are angry. What do you see of others?

• Do they seem like objects to you where they seem less important to yourself, where they deserve to be punished?
• Do you want to know what got you angry in the first place?
• Why is your child or spouse just could do nothing right?
• Why do you get under the line of Responsibility?

• Through this great read, I became clearer as I understand why do I gounder the RESPONSIBILITY line and stay there. I also understood the effects if i stay under the line, such as inviting others to liveunder the line with me. It's a negative effect that is transferred. Thus, I understood how can I transmit positive energy instead, how I can change it to a positive energy.
• One method I learned to go above the line is to see others as PEOPLE. Well, how do I see other as people? Feeling a desire for them, feel and understand them and relate to the mask I know that everyone has comparable legitimate hopes and dreams inlife. Feeling others from their point of view, values and experience.
• In order to stay above the line more frequently, I have learn to take action when a choice or feeling to serve others arises in my thought. This action will actually keep me stay above the line. If there is delay, the mind is able to justify and blame for my inactions. False images will be created in the mind. We know the existence of blaming and justifying whereby this book gave me a clearer view on how blameand justification occurs, which in turn gave me the power to change.

~CLARITY LEADS TO POWER~